Receiving divorce papers can feel overwhelming. Whether you expected it or not, taking quick and thoughtful action is essential. Here is what to do next.
Review the divorce papers
Read every word of the papers. These documents explain your spouse’s requests, including property division, child custody, and support. Pay attention to the deadline for your response, typically 20 days in Texas. Missing this deadline could allow your spouse to move forward without your input.
Respond promptly
File an “answer” with the court before the deadline. This ensures you have a say in decisions about your future. Your answer addresses the claims in the divorce petition and lets you make counterclaims if necessary. If you don’t want to proceed without guidance, hiring a skilled attorney can help you protect your rights.
Organize your finances
Divorce often involves dividing property and debts. Start gathering financial records, including tax returns, pay stubs, bank statements, and details about assets and liabilities. Consider setting up a personal bank account to separate your finances. This step prepares you for discussions about property division and financial support.
Prepare for what is next
Once you have responded, the process moves forward. You may engage in mediation to reach agreements on key issues. If mediation fails, the case goes to court. Stay involved, communicate with your attorney, and gather evidence to support your claims.
Every divorce is different. Taking the right steps early can set the tone for the entire process. Take control by staying informed and proactive.